The Hetschel Report

Unhurried, honest notes from Jeff Hetschel on grief, family, faith and meaning, money, and technology in the fourth quarter of life. Written for people of every faith and no faith. New issues every Tuesday and Friday.

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Three good first reads if you are new.

When the person you love is still here, but changing

October 6, 2026

A new book follows one family through frontotemporal dementia. On ambiguous loss: grieving someone who is still here.

Who Answers at 2 A.M.? AI Ethics in Mental Health

October 16, 2026

New research says chatbots can tell when someone is in trouble. In about a third of crisis chats, they stopped at kind.

Company and Memory: What Buffett's YouTube Hour Teaches the Fourth Quarter

October 13, 2026

At 96, Warren Buffett watches his late friend Charlie Munger's speeches. What we do with the voice of a friend who is gone.

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Go-Go Grandparents and the Soccer Ball

October 27, 2026

Grandparenthood now starts later, leaving fewer healthy years together. Why to budget your Go-Go years on purpose, with the grandkids first.

This World Series Reminds Us Why We Still Root

October 24, 2026

The Brewers and Rays reached the World Series on the smallest budgets. Why lifelong fandom, belonging, and memory still matter in the fourth quarter.

Who Answers at 2 A.M.? AI Ethics in Mental Health

October 16, 2026

New research says chatbots can tell when someone is in trouble. In about a third of crisis chats, they stopped at kind.

Company and Memory: What Buffett's YouTube Hour Teaches the Fourth Quarter

October 13, 2026

At 96, Warren Buffett watches his late friend Charlie Munger's speeches. What we do with the voice of a friend who is gone.

The Will Is Not the Relationship

October 9, 2026

Estrangement is in the news. In the fourth quarter, the question isn't the money. It's who is still in the room.

When the person you love is still here, but changing

October 6, 2026

A new book follows one family through frontotemporal dementia. On ambiguous loss: grieving someone who is still here.

Utility over profit

October 3, 2026

Will America really spend 9% of GDP on AI? Why I choose utility over the builders' profit, and what that means for the fourth quarter.

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